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Forum » Family Relationships » Husband and Wife » Hubbys Friend Hitting on Me

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Author	Topic: Hubbys Friend Hitting on Me

Isabella

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Posts: 1

Hubbys Friend Hitting on Me
on: February 3, 2012, 18:05

Feel very conflicted. Am a married lady with kids.
My husbands friend, also married to my friend with kids has hit on me.
We have a friendly relationship and he has made his feelings for me very clear
I have told him no and to leave me alone, but doesn't listen. I now find myself attracted to him too.
I don't know how to stay away!
I have not told my hubby or anyone!
Any advise?

zazu

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Posts: 19

Re: Hubbys Friend Hitting on Me
on: February 3, 2012, 20:14

This story sounds cheap sorry

Roxy-Lox

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Posts: 3

Re: Hubbys Friend Hitting on Me
on: February 4, 2012, 08:34

Slms Sister.
You obviously need to speak to your husband about this else you will find yourself going down a very dangerous path of haraam attraction. Ask yourself if this guy is worth losing your husband, your marriage and your kids over?
When married, one should be very careful when deciding on the quality of friends to be in the company of. I got some very good advise from a couple of people before I got married: be very wary of having 'couple friends' that you socialise with once you are married. The devil is bound to do his waswasa's when there are non-mahram males and females socialising as though they are close family.
In my experience, I would suggest you limit the amount of time you spend with this couple or only see your friend when her husband is not around.
May Allah give you the strength to resist the ego-boost that you are feeling with your husbands ' friend' showing an interest in you.