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Forum » Family Relationships » Husband and Wife » Caught husband watching porn, he blames me

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Nanima

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Caught husband watching porn, he blames me
on: February 3, 2012, 16:48

Slms Nanima, i need sum advice.I caught my husband watching porn.i confronted him about it and he totally blew his top.i had a baby a couple of months ago and did nt lose the baby fat as yet,bt now he is trying to justify his actions by blaming me about being fat.from wednesday he is nt talking to me nor eating wat i cook.he even went as far as to say that i shud hav married someone that will hit me gud and solid then i will cum rite.How do i approach him without ending up in cat fight,im at my wits end .

Nanima

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Posts: 270

Re: Caught husband watching porn, he blames me
on: February 3, 2012, 17:32

here is a website for porn addicts - http://www.purifyyourgaze.com/

please do not blame yourself for this.. it is a disease of the heart and inshaAllah if he is willing to help himself be cured from this sickness..

Nanima

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Re: Caught husband watching porn, he blames me
on: February 3, 2012, 18:56

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fairymom

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Re: Caught husband watching porn, he blames me
on: February 11, 2012, 18:27

Sadly in our society porn is like a drug, it a devils game. Best is to seek help and work together. Like a drug addict it not ur fault, it not ur fault u never loose the baby fat. 2yrs later and I'm still trying to loose the fat so ur body has been trough a lot to bring a baby into the world. Seek Allah and seek him together. Inshalla all will be ok