Matchmaking – Male Matchmaking form

Written by on February 16, 2012 in Matchmaking


Matchmaking is back – eish, things got really deurmekaar as the matchmaker had a family emergency. so we decided to scrap the old and bring in the new. If you have registered before you have to re register. Apologies for inconvenience. We are trying to make the process more efficient. If you want to use the service you have to register online. Find below the  registration form. There are separate forms for male and female.

Please be patient with the matchmaker.    The matchmaker is doing this out of the goodness of her heart, voluntarily, using her free time and her own resources to help you. Please treat her with respect and be thankful  for the service she is kindly providing. Remember that she is doing us a favour.

Also note if we find there are to many players wasting our time, we may have to start charging a registration fee just to weed out the payers from the players. (we really don’t want to do that)

 

MATCHMAKING PROCESS

MATCHMAKING PROCESS

  1. A matchmaking form has to be filled in for matchmaking requests.

  2. This is not a dating agency, if you are serious about marriage and looking for a life partner, you are at the right place.
  3. Our strict non negotiable policy is that we require a reference/mahram. Reference has to be a parent, if parent not alive then an Imaam, religious leader or Elder in the family. If no reference is provided the form will be rejected immediately.  Please do not waste our time if you not going to give us a reference. We will not entertain any requests if this information is not given to us. (No friends/chomies allowed as references)
  4. Our aim is to keep this service as shariah compliant as possible. We do not want to encourage meeting each other alone for safety reasons that is why we insist on involving third parties.
  5. Once you complete the form you will be placed in a database and a code will be allocated to your profile. Please use this code when communicating with the matchmaker to make it easy to reference.
  6. Once the form is approved, if given permission , we place profile on the website and may promote on social media like twitter and facebook. Only the profile code is included with basic information provided on the form. We do not publish any personal information, names, contact details on the website and in the newsletter, facebook and other social media. (For safety and privacy reasons especially)
  7. There are a limited number of profiles available especially male, you might not get the one you choose on the list. You may have to kiss or rather drink tea with a lot of frogs before the prince or princess arrives. Please be patient
  8. Once form is filled, don’t call us, we will call you unless you are interested in another profile.
  9. Matchmaking is free, extremely confidential, discreet, safe and shariah compliant.
  10. Only contact the Matchmaker between 10am-3pm Mon to Friday.
  11. One introduction at a time, no samoosa runs allowed.
  12. Matchmaker will only exchange contact details and disclose names with the references
  13. Once information is exchanged, it is in the reference hands to do all the homework, background checks about the profile. We are not responsible once numbers are exchanged.
  14. We highly recommend that the two profiles meet each other with the references and family. For Islamic reasons we do not encourage meeting alone.
  15. As this is done by the matchmaker and myself on a volunteer basis, please respect our requirements and our time.
  16. Read your istikharah
  17. Remember to invite Nanima/Matchmaker to the wedding, just joking

Tips

Learn this dua and read continuously and especially after salaah….. you have the intention to complete half your faith. You have made the effort. Inshaalah Allah will  make it easier.

Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wathurriyyatina qurrata aAAyunin waijAAalna lilmuttaqeena imaman

“Our Lord! Grant unto us spouse and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.” (25:74)

 

NB. Remember to read you istikharah when it comes to that point and you have to make a decision.

In order for your profile to be placed on the website, we require the following information. Names and contact details will not be published on the website or in the newsletter, facebook or given to anyone without your permission.

Click this link if form is not loading – Male matchmaking form

Any queries contact the matchmaker directly – [email protected]

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  1. Aabeda says:

    Jazakumullah khair

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